Do you feel like a dud when anyone initiates sexting or wants to know how to initiate it yourself? You are at the right place, this guide aims to discuss some of the most basic tips and tricks that you need to know in order to ace your sexting game.
General Overview Of Sexting
To those of you who have lived under a rock till now, sexting can be simply explained as a back-and-forth of texts between two or more individuals that are NSFW in nature. These texts can hark back on a sexual memory or an imaginary scenario. Along with texts, individuals use nude pictures, voice memos explaining the intricacy of the act, emojis, etc. This whole act encompasses the phenomenon known as sexting.
According to sex and relationship expert Ness Cooper, “Sexting allows individuals to explore different opportunities sexually that they wouldn’t engage in whilst in person. It also allows people to dip into more taboo areas of their sexual fantasies and allows them to communicate them with someone they are intimate with.”
In fact, several experts, including Ness Cooper, believe that sexting can enhance the very act of sex as it removes a lot of inhibitions.
Keep Things Safe And Secured
Before we reach more sexually charged texting, you need to take a moment and assess the security of your phone. If you are sexting with somebody other than your partner, be sure that the texts are hidden effectively. In fact, even if you are sexting with your partner, your texts, pictures, and voice notes need to be secured and safe. Personally, I feel safer when I am Snapchat sexting. Snapchat has a feature of disappearing messages. This is an amazing feature that deletes texts and all after a certain period of time. So, there are no trails that anybody, including your partner, can find.
Guide To Sexting
Now that you know the benefits of sexting and the sheer pleasure involved in it, I am sure you are dying to try it yourself. However, slow down. Any sexual act is something that cannot be rushed. It is an act that should be enjoyed at leisure.
Keeping that in mind, let us see some of the ways you can initiate sexting with your partner. This guide provides a general overview. The technique is not set in stone. You can jazz things up if you feel like it. However, the rules that I have mentioned here are some of the things that I followed and got results.
Ask For Consent
This is something that I should not be explaining to anybody. Still, this guide is meant to be informative, so I will be taking things from the top. The foremost thing that you need to do in order to initiate sexting and make the experience comfortable for everyone involved is to establish that the act is consensual in nature. I know that you are horny as hell, but remember, if it is not consensual, then it is not sexy. In fact, when both of you are consenting to the act, then the experience is going to be enhanced.
Decide The Vibe You Are Going For
Once you have the consent, the next thing that you need to do is to establish the vibe that you are going for. This is going to decide the direction your sexting game is gonna go towards. Personally, I think the initial few texts decide the mood that you guys are going for. My partner and I usually start our game as if it's a normal batch of texting but with hints of NSFW undertones. Be creative and precise in your selection of vibe. Subtly make sure that you and your partner are on the same page. Also, if you are at it, then choose your words carefully. Instead of saying ‘I am hard/wet,” try to jazz things up. Using funky terms will definitely help you enhance the whole deal.
Foreplay Is Seminal
This is especially true for guys who think that sex is only about penetration. When you are sexting, you need to be more and more concentrated on the act of foreplay. Try teasing your partners with little phrases and images that get them going. Provide an elaborate and detailed description of the foreplay that you guys want to engage yourselves in. This would set the pacing and tone of the sexual act. In fact, this is true for real sex as well. Give her the head that she deserves, guys! And trust me, you will get a gift in return.
End On Facetime
You guys have been at it for a while, and you feel like the climax is on the horizon. This is the perfect time to switch things up. Me and my partner personally like to end our sexting sessions on Facetime. We believe that we need to see our orgasm face to complete the act. This might not be the case for everyone, but ever since we started doing this, the sexting experience enhanced manifolds.
Climax
There you go, this was the guide on how to initiate sexting with your partner or anybody you feel sexually attracted to. I know the very act can feel a little weird at first, but once you get the hang of it, you can drive the other person mad. So these are the ways you can ace your sexting game.
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